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    [Girls] need advice, guys too i guess :)

    Long story short: was married for 12 years
    broke up 8 months ago
    I got a new GF

    To be honest i didn't bother much about my wife and never gave it much thought, but my new GF has kinda took the rug away from my feet, and i think i may be over doing the "you're amazing" nicey nicey touchy feely stuff. She has mentioned i tend to saturate her with comments like;

    You're gorgeous, amazing, so funny and stuff like that.

    My confusion lays with this, i thought all women loved to be told this sort of stuff all the time?

    Maybe i'm old school (33) and not too familiar with 'todays' relationship expectations, but should i go back to pretending not to really care or what?

    Ta,

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    i tell me misses once a day and thats it
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    They're all different, if she is implying you over-do the comments, then for her it seems you are.

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    Quote Originally Posted by nry View Post
    They're all different, if she is implying you over-do the comments, then for her it seems you are.
    Good point she is a star right enough and i've known her for about 3 years now, only really started seeing each other seriously after my breakup. I suppose there's such a thing as watering things down
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    From what I've heard and read, some women tend to grow weary of constant compliments and nicey-nicey stuff all the time.
    They can become to see the guy as a bit of a wuss and lose interest.

    Ideally you should be able to talk to her about it. Communication is key.
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    walk in, without saying a word and bop her on the nose. simply state this makes up for the over enthusiatic nicey nicey comments and go from their

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    Me and the misses have got to the stage where i walk in and say "hey up chunky" and she says "oright ugly"

    Shes not fat but its just in jest. Your lass is probably wanting a challange. So go out with your mates now and then and back away with the niceness just my input

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    It depends on the individual. Some girls don't like compliments, others thrive on them. You have to listen to what your girlfriend has to say and take it on board since she's the important one in all this.
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    start to bulley her push her over as you walk by,put cling film over the toilet seat, and turn one out on her pillow. these are the 3 rules to make a lady want you.

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    Thanks Gents She did chase after me a lot when i was married, then got separated and was never away from my flat, then has started slowly been leaving it a few days before we see each other.

    My mates keep saying "treat them mean keeps them keen" I just dont have it in me lol
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