hey guys dont mean to throw my personal problems at you all but i need opinions/advice. for the past few weeks ive noticed my wife has been texting a lot and changing her passwords on her laptop, i work nights so usualy dont get home until about 4 in the morning so unsure what she does in the meantime. ill text her whilst at work but she takes ages to reply, yet when im home she checks her phone every 5 minutes!
now im not the sort of person to go snooping but 2 days ago i woke up at about 12 in the afternoon, wife was downstairs hoovering and i was in bed with her phone stairing me in the face, so i decided ill just check to see if the person she said was texting her was who she was but instead found loads of texts from a guy called 'stephen' including 1 that said "really enjoyed tonight sexy, hope we can do it again soon xxx" now at this point i was fuming but didnt know what to do, i love my wife to bits but cant believe she'd do this! so me being me ive kept quiet, mainly because im scared ill loose everything and her.
now we have paid a lot of money recently to go away (we go in the morning!!) and i dont know whether im going to be able to hide my temper, but as ive caught her doing this before i really dont know what to do, i want to leave her but this is my first long relationship and i havent got a clue how to get out im also scared of being on my own, she doesnt know i have seen the messages but she has noticed i have been in a fowl mood, what would you guys do??