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    sorry to burden you all

    but today would've been my wee girls sixth birthday,she was born asleep on 13th june 2003 at 1.25pm.
    although its been six years the pain is still like it happened yesterday even more so on her birthday,so today my wife and two boys and i bought the flowers and a few little trinkets to put at her grave,and talk to her to which the boys think is daft there only young and dont really understand well the youngest anyway.

    my wife is now in bed and i'd just thought i'd post this up to get how i'm feeling out so as not to upset my wife,she knows i hurt but i wish it was me and not my little girl she so desperatly longed for.

    i read a quote on a headstone today that really hit home it read "now you've gone and left this place no one now or ever will can take your place"

    sorry about the post but its made me feel better getting it out,it's was not meant for sympathy just what was on my mind.

    thanks

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    I'm sorry for your loss mate, I know how hard it is, though not lost any kids of my own yet (though I don't have any) but recently lost my great Grandmother. you are right that it is good to get your feelings out in the open and don't be afraid to cry if you need to. Its touching that you visited her on her birthday and read a few words to her, My sympathies are with you
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    let it out mate
    i can imagine how you feel right now
    but be strong, for your wife, your boys and yourself
    you're not here for a long time you're here for a good time
    no matter how bad a situation is, it could have always been a lot worse
    I think it's really good what you did today, and also the fact you're not embarassed to show your feelings
    My thoughts are with you and ur family
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    Good to get it off your chest mate, the worst thing you can do is keep things bottled up! I cant say i know how you feel because if been fortunate enough to never lose anyone that close to me! Sorry for your loss fella! Thoughts are with you and your family!

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    Very sorry to hear of your loss. I can only imagine what its like to be in your shoes, and the best thing is to let it out. And alot of the time its easier to tell strangers things of this nature so we all understand. I hope it made you feel better letting it out, and relieved some of your pain. My thoughts are with you and your family on this difficult anniversary.

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    Why do we have to suffer this heartache, i cant understand! The world is such a cruel place its always the good that are taken or taken from. People tell you that time is a healer but it is just not true, the time just helps you learn to live in a different way. My thoughts are with, and as you say its nice to share your grief with people that are slightly detached.
    This poem is one of my favourites maybe it can offer you some comfort too. Jx


    Do Not Stand At My Grave and Weep Do not stand at my grave and weep
    I am not there. I do not sleep.
    I am a thousand winds that blow.
    I am the diamond glints on snow.
    I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
    I am the gentle autumn rain.
    When you awaken in the morning's hush
    I am the swift uplifting rush
    Of quiet birds in circled flight.
    I am the soft stars that shine at night.
    Do not stand at my grave and cry;
    I am not there, I did not die.

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    sorry to hear about your loss mate, its never easy to loose someone, especally a daughty so young.

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    So sorry to hear of your loss. Nothing anyone can say to make you feel any better, but glad you feel you can get it off your chest here.

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    So sorry to hear that mate really feel for you

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    Sorry to hear about your loss mate.

    Its better to let it out, and this forum is full of caring people.

    I sort of now how you feel as november last year I almost lost my son, and he was in Special Baby Care for 2months and that was hard enough.

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