Ex husband related 'issue' warning
Very long story short.
Split up with him in 2003. I wanted another baby with him, he didn't want any more (we had two already) so ok, I lived with that for the time I was with him.
I kicked him out after finding out a few things, he got joint mortgage with 'nameless person' that he had supposedly only known for two months .
In 2006, its announced the 'nameless person' is pregnant by him, and is due on my birthday (how ironic). Our two children were told about it, Ashlie not happy, Kieren didn't care. Their baby was born a month early, my kids have seen her twice in the 2 yrs and 7 months shes been alive.
Ashlie told me that ex was getting married (bearing in mind he was NEVER getting married again after we split up), Ashlie was asked to be bridesmaid which she was chuffed to bits with.
Over Christmas this year, they get married without telling my kids. Ashlie proper devastated as she was meant to be bridesmaid.
Two months ago, he took then to a local hotel for the night as a treat (after letting them down on taking them abroad for a few days over Easter).. He says he needs to tell them something, but doesn't actually do it.
An hour ago, he rings Ashlie to tell her she now has a baby half brother that was born last night.
They weren't even told that she was pregnant.
Now is it just me, or would any 'normal' father have told his own children that there was another one coming along, and for that matter, that he was getting married?
Sorry, rant over, but Ashlie now wants nothing to do with him.