Sometimes we think (as the saying goes) the grass is greener on the other side. So we take a leap of faith and without considering the implications we plunge our selves into a new venture or a situation.
Now sometimes we succeed but at other times we do not. If we are lucky, we may get a relative, friend, or maybe even a stranger help us out but we should remember that not everyone that comes to us when we are in difficulty is there to help us. Sometimes they have other motives.