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    Family Arguements

    In family arguements do you get involved or steer clear (Im meaning direct family here).

    Normally get involved and come out worse myself, but this time steered clear and looks like it'll be a nice split between parents - feel I should go n say summit to um both but dunno.
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    depends on the situation,

    i tend to steer clear for as long as i can but if needed will get involved but that doesn't happen very often...



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    I think thats the andy thing to do

    Just had the distinct sound of remus ******** off so thats mum gone, probably to me grans - she wont understand why dads gone off on one feel like going and explaining to her that she is soooo annoying and ignorant at times but that would probably just add fuel to the fire rather than help her understand.
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    i tend to stick my head in the sand tbh until it gets to far, parents would be hard to get involved in though i would have thought (mine havn't been together as long as i can remember so not really sure how i would react?)

    maybe give it a day to cool off and see?
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    Well I cant get involved now, ive told dad he was wrong to react how he did and he knows, mum on other hand will think shes done nowt wrong.

    Cant go tell her as shes driven off and ive drank too much to be driving (although probably still fine for driving only had 2 beers) I aint losing my license as well as possibly my family.
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    Is this just a ruck or is it a possible divorce situation? If it is just a row then I'd leave them to it. By having a go at them you'll only get their backs up and then they will take it out on you instead.

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    Its a difficult one Andy, you dont want to see either of them hurt, but as has been said, probably best to leave them to it. Last thing you want to be is "piggy in the middle".
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    Minxy ive seen this happen before n things where ok a long time afterwards.

    But I just dont think either of them are arsed anymore so who knows. I've been wrong about them splitting before but then ive never seen either of them care so little before either.
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    Im so lucky with my parents.

    They never argue, if mum has a wobbley, then my dad either just laughs at her stamping her feet, or goes on one of his 'quiet' times, where he will hardly speak to anybody, and you know he's got the hump because he does this tuneless whistle lol

    Mind you, its their 47th anniversary on Tuesday, so I guess its worked so far

    With my sister, I rarely see her tbh, if she does something I dont agree with (like the camel toe incident) then I will just tell her, if it causes us not to speak for months, then I really couldn't care less. With my disabled brother, we never fall out....but his mrs is another story, I cant bear her, and would rather not speak to her at all!

    Its really odd though, because even though it was always my mum who used to wallop me if I was naughty, I was always more scared of my dad not speaking to me


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    Mums a pain because if shes doing your head in n just tell her to sod off n leave you alone she stays in your face pushinh n shoving so she is the architect of her own downfall.
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