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    Unhappy Broken up with my GF

    Just sorta broken up with my GF, She was the one to break up with me as things have not been going to great letely, its probs for the best as i only wana see her happy and if thats without me as her BF then so be it, i feel so down and like shit, tbh its my own fault we were going out for 2 and a half years and towards the end i was taking her for granted. I just hope that if i cant be in her life as a BF that she will still let me see her as a mate from time to time.
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    Sorry to hear that mate.

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    don't just walk away, show her how much you care and fight to keep her!!

    let her sleep on it then go see here with flowers and a letter explaining your feelings. apologise and say you realise you have been taking her for granted but that you love her and want to stay together if she'll have you. see about planning a short break away together and start afresh

    never, EVER, let a girl walk away if you love them and care about them - you can never know if you will ever love someone again or if someone will love her the way you do, so don't take any chances.
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    Sorry to hear that mate, but dont blame yourself. Just dont let her play with your emotions though.

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    dont let 2 and a half years go out of the window like that mate, fight for it, look tell her how you feel and that you cant just let her walk out of your life,

    tell her how special she is, and that you only appreciate something when its gone, and how you've realised that, mate you made a mistake, mistakes happen, now show her how your gonna come back from it, show her how things are gonna be better if you give it another shot.


    and if all fails, ask to see her one more time, take her out and treat it as a first date, make her feel special, and theres a nice guy inside everyone, you've just got to show her it.


    Mate you two must have something special or else it wouldnt have lasted 2 and a half years.



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    Quote Originally Posted by peteg2004 View Post
    don't just walk away, show her how much you care and fight to keep her!!

    let her sleep on it then go see here with flowers and a letter explaining your feelings. apologise and say you realise you have been taking her for granted but that you love her and want to stay together if she'll have you. see about planning a short break away together and start afresh

    never, EVER, let a girl walk away if you love them and care about them - you can never know if you will ever love someone again or if someone will love her the way you do, so don't take any chances.
    I did say to her that i know i have been taking her for granted and that and that i love her, the thing that gets her down mainly is that we dont have massive amounts of time together, we used to spend ages together but now due to both out jobs its hard so dont see each other that much typical week is: mondays i meet her from work and stay with her for a few hours before i come home to bed, then tuesday i dont see her as after work i have training classes, then wednesday i meet her from work for few hours, thurdays after work i have training & see a mate after, friday i have work 8pm till 4am on the nightclub doors, saturday i go over to hers at 1pm till 7pm then have work at 8pm till 4am and then on sundays we both do our own things. So i can understand where she is comming from as all her mates that are in relationships see there BFs way more then she gets to see me
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    Quote Originally Posted by A51M View Post
    dont let 2 and a half years go out of the window like that mate, fight for it, look tell her how you feel and that you cant just let her walk out of your life,

    tell her how special she is, and that you only appreciate something when its gone, and how you've realised that, mate you made a mistake, mistakes happen, now show her how your gonna come back from it, show her how things are gonna be better if you give it another shot.


    and if all fails, ask to see her one more time, take her out and treat it as a first date, make her feel special, and theres a nice guy inside everyone, you've just got to show her it.


    Mate you two must have something special or else it wouldnt have lasted 2 and a half years.



    gimme a pm if you want any advice mate, i'l be happy to share my experience

    thanks for the advice mate, shes going to speak to me tomorrow so i will speak to her more then but from the sounds of things and how she is coming accross its past the point of saving
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    To cheer you up i think you should tak my coupe in p/x for yours
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    Im confused i thought this was astra sport not sunday surgery?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nicko_12345 View Post
    To cheer you up i think you should tak my coupe in p/x for yours
    lol my car and possesions mean nothing to me at the moment when i am feeling the way i am
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