Bugger, I mis-spelt the title and cant change it..its meant to say Regarding lol
Right, this is a hard one in my eyes, but if, say you were 15ish, and had a guy you alway thought of as your dad, lived with him with your mum etc etc..I mean, 'normal' family life. Mum and Dad have been married for about 18 years and the kids came along after that.
Now how would you feel if you were then told that actually, hes not your dad at all, you (and your brother) were the result of IVF.
Im asking as this will be happening to someone close to me very soon, he is the 'non daddy'. As far as we know, the kids dont know anything, but there is that slight niggle, that maybe they do as the youngest has been acting oddly recently, and we think the Aunts kids may have said something they shouldnt have