Well boys and girls there has been a development (for those of you who haven't seen the f/s section you might as well ignore this!)
Have been in talks with business link and jcp and apparently I am entitled to funding due to mine and my little ones age. So woo hoo I can keep the business.
Sorry to those who pm'd me, I should really have thought of business link but there you go. I've put in too much hard work to sell now I've found this info out.
So for all you people that have spoken to me about lights/bonnets/kits/spoilers etc it will still be the lovely me you deal with
I did correct my posting in the f/s section but it didn't move to the top??